From vibrators to nipple clamps, there are lots of different sex toys on the market. While you want to push yourself and try something different, some of them may not be for you and your partner. We guide you through the different kinds of sex toys, with their pros and cons below.
Different Kinds of Sex Toys
Vibrators are one of the most common sex toys and come in a variety of shapes and sizes. They are battery operated and use vibrating or rhythmic motions to stimulate sensitive areas, such as the clitoris or inside of the vagina.
Wand Vibrators
These are the most common type of vibrator. They are long and phallic, to represent the penis shaft. They tend to have a high rate of vibration compared to other vibrators or sex toys.
Wand vibrators can often be very elaborate. They can come with multiple settings and additional stimulators such as ears and clitoral stimulation attachments.
Clitoral Vibrators
These vibrators are much smaller and discreet than wand vibrators. They provide direct stimulation of the clitoris area. Very often, they come in small bullet shape sizes but can be found in a variety of shapes and textures.
Rabbit Vibrators
Rabbit vibrators are a special design of vibrator that incorporates a standard wand with an additional clitoral vibrator. The clitoral stimulator is often provided by two vibrating rabbit ears that protrude from the wand, and both sections of the toy can be controlled separately.
Massager
Clitoral vibrators may also fall under the category of massager. A massager is something that stimulates an area of the body for the purposes of pleasure. They are small and easy to move around.
Other massagers you may encounter are prostate massagers. They are specifically designed for anal stimulation, particularly in men.
Dildos
Dildos are molded sex toys designed to represent the penis. They come in a variety of looks, some realistic, some not. Plain old penises to tentacles and shards of ice can be found in the plethora of dildos, created in everything from glass to wood and plastic.
They can be used by both males and females for penetration. Many dildos come with a suction cup on the bottom, so the toy can be affixed for some extra purchase. A dildo can also be double-ended, so they can be used by two people at once.
Butt Plugs
Butt plugs are sex toys designed specifically for anal play. They are bulb-shaped devices that insert into the anus and gently let your muscles relax around the toy. They are great for people wanting to begin experimenting with anal fun.
Butt Plugs often have a recess after the widening tip, meaning they can stay in during other sexual activity. They come in a selection of widths and sizes.
Anal Beads
Anal beads are a length of small beads that increase in size, going from smaller at the tip to larger at the bottom. They are inserted into the sphincter and provide anal stimulation. Unlike a butt plug, they have a ribbed effect and provide the sensation of opening and closing in the anus.
People often say that pulling them out at orgasm can create a more intense climax. They are a good toy to begin anal play with as you can regulate the number of beads and thickness that you prefer inside you. People often say they have a fuller feeling than a butt plug.
Cock Rings
A cock ring is a circular sex toy that fits around the base of the penis. It is often made from an elasticized or rubber material, allowing it to apply easily and constrict. They are often available with built-in mini vibration devices or clitoral stimulators.
The cock ring works by restricting blood flow to the penis. It can provide a longer and more sustained erection. It can also stave off ejaculation, making sex last longer than normal.
G and A Spot Toys
G and A spot toys are specially designed to reach the spots inside a vagina that are usually quite hard to hit (or find). Typically, they come in two designs and are there are things to know about both designs.
The first is generally a curved, estimator style wand with built-in controls. The second is an egg on a stick shape, that allows you to reach inside spots no normally accessible. Spot toys will be larger and longer than G spot counterparts so that they can reach further back into the vaginal cavity.
Pumps
Pumps are available for both penile and clitoral stimulation. Both use vacuums to suck at the genitals, creating a range of effects. For men, this can increase the size of the penis. More blood will flow into it, and it can help with anyone suffering from erection problems. In women, the pump can enlarge the clitoris in the same way. It can increase blood flow to the area, increasing sensitivity.
Whips
Whips don’t have to be pain-inducing, toe-curling cats of nine tails. In fact, whips can come in a variety of sizes and materials for anyone who wants to begin experimenting in mild BDSM. They can be made of everything from soft leather to feathers.
Cuffs
Cuffs are also great fun for some light BDSM and control play. They can be found in everything from industrial metal to pink fluffy finishes. Stay safe and keep the key at hand, or opt for quick release ones if you are really safety conscious.
Nipple Clamps
Nipple clamps are small crocodile clips that attach to the nipples. They are often joined by a chain, and provide a mild sensation of pain to the wearer. They should provide a warm and hot sensation around the areola, increasing sensitivity.
Choosing the Toy
Now you know the different kinds of sex toys, all that is left to do is try them out! Discuss with your partner what turns them on, what they would like to do, and try choosing a toy together.
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