Age is just a number right?
Recently there was an infographic that hit the front page of the internet. Of course, we’re talking about Reddit. There was a time-killer post about the famous actor Johnny Depp. The graph demonstrated that as Depp increases in age, his romantic partners get younger and younger. Here is the Johnny Depp graph in case you didn’t see it.
Quickly Redditors pointed out that Depp’s girlfriends weren’t getting younger. A more accurate description was, Depp was aging, but his girlfriends were staying the same age. That age is early to mid 20’s. No doubt the top comment on the Reddit post was a reference to Mathew McGaunhey’s famous line from the cult classic Daze and Confused. He says, “No man, I’ll tell you. That’s what I love about these high school girls… I get older. They stay the same age.”
Dazed and Confused – High school Girls Quote
No doubt, this a humorous example that depicts how some losers keep hanging out with high school kids after they graduate. Senior year was the best year of their entire life and they want to continue to relive it in perpetuity. Most of us get a life and move on to college, the work force, or join the Armed Services, etc… But we all know someone who acts like a creeper this way.
Before we get into why the question of why older men enjoy dating younger women and how to meet young ladies, let’s debunk two common myths about this subject.
Myth #1 – All men like younger women
A common misconception is that all men like younger women. This couldn’t be more untrue. Especially with younger men, if you reference the Depp graph again, you’ll see that men in their early twenties frequently date women older than themselves. This could be for a few reasons. Perhaps the male is more socially mature than his peers and doesn’t like to associate with girls his age.
The classic example is the sexually active older female wants a young man who is at his peak sexually and can satisfy her carnal desire in a way that older men can’t. Many studies point to the fact that men reach their sexual peak at the age of 17 while for women it can be as late 35. This phenomenon, a younger male with a sexually aroused older female, has been played out many times in pop culture as well. Here are three well known examples:
The Graduate (1967)
The original bored housewife seduction story, The Graduate, was ground breaking in many ways. Featuring razor sharp humor and social commentary on taboo sexual subjects, it was nominated for seven Academy Awards and won in the category of Best Director. Mrs. Robinson (Anne Bancroft), sets her lustful eyes on a 21 year Dustin Hoffman as he courts her daughter. You’ll have to watch the movie to find out who wins. Simon and Garfunkel contribute some classic songs to the film too.
My Teacher’s Wife (1995)
Tia Carrere sizzles as a math tutor from My Teacher’s Wife as she seduces her young student.
American Pie (1999)
American Pie, in the vein of raunchy frat humor the likes of Animal House or Porky’s, virtually introduced the acronym M.I.L.F. into the English lexicon. Short for Mom I’d Like to Fuck, the movie follows are group of horny guys one their unique quests to get laid. Hilarity ensues. If that wasn’t enough, exactly one apple pie gets violated and the then-neveau item of webcam delivers an eyeful. A sexy young Shannon Elizabeth portrays the forging exchange student Nadia as she explores masturbation on cam, but little does she know that she has an audience! Classic good times.
Myth #2 – All younger women who like older men are gold diggers
There is no question that women can be mean and extremely cruel to each other. They nitpick, degrade and conspire to discredit other women based on their looks, behavior, or just about anything else. Why is this, who knows? Maybe it’s jealousy, but one thing that woman generally admit is that other women aren’t as supportive as they outwardly appear.
As a result of this, a young woman who is attracted to older men is often branded a golddigger by other women. They might whisper to friends that she is just craving a ‘sugar daddy’. The derogatory term, ‘sugar daddy’, refers to a man who financially supports a younger woman. He may shower her lavish gifts, favors and/or cash. In return she either acts as his girlfriend, and despite a wide age gap, she enters into a romantic relationship with him. One of the most famous examples of this, was when the Playboy Playmate Anna Nicole Smith married the Texas oil billionaire J. Howard Marshall. In 1994, Nicole-Smith was 26 years old when she married the 89 tycoon.
Now, some of you guys reading this article are saying, “Hell yeah Grandpa! Get some Playmate action for the old guys out there!” But can you really blame Marshall. Here is an extremely sucessfull man at the end of his life and he is being pursued by a voluptuous blonde Playboy centerfold. This a man who has grown accustomed to winning throughout his entire life. Is it that hard to imagine he truly believed that this 26 year old blonde sexpot didn’t genuinely love him?
But while this clearly was the case with Nicole-Smith and Marshall marriage, the same doesn’t apply to all women. The fact is many younger women enjoy dating older men because the older man has more life experience and she may want associate herself with that.
Why are men attracted to dating younger women
3 ways to meet younger women
o you want to meet a younger woman for dating? Here are a few ways that you can make that happen, but remember not to be ‘the creepy old guy who stares’. You need to have your basics like, personal hygiene and grooming, ability to recognize flirting signs, and fundamental understanding of what women want down first. For most of you, this won’t be a problem. You’re looking to date younger women, which means that you’ve already learned a lot about dating from dating women your own age or older.
Take a class
We aren’t advocating you cruise the local high school like Dazed and Confused clip. You’ll probably get fucking arrested or your ass kicked by a protective father. That being said, you could always take a couple of college classes. A handful of college credits, wether you need them or not, could get you around some ladies that are younger than you. A blunt suggestion; You might want to update your wardrobe if you haven’t since you graduated from your alma mater.
A yoga class is another great way to meet younger women. These are spaces where women feel safe, and they enjoy the comfort of breaking a sweat and blowing off the day’s stress. Beware, yoga classes aren’t laying around on a mat and sleeping. These young ladies work out hard! There are difficult poses and holds that will definaelty push you to your physical limit. However, the payout can be worth it. Don’t go into the first class with the intention of banging the first young woman you meet. You need to pace yourself, and become a familiar face at the classes overtime. Gradually strike up a conversation, and build reporie from there. Oh, and we have a bonus for you, two words; Yoga pants.
Volunteer
Volunteering your time can be a great way to meet younger women. That doesn’t mean you have to spend your Saturday afternoons scooping bowls of gruel to unthankful homeless bums. There are many opportunities for volunteers that are both rewarding and meaningful. Being a volunteer firefighter is a classic example. Young women love firefighters! There is an ongoing joke among the rank and file of fire fighters about the proper way to ‘pick up fire hose’. Double entendre jokes are always funny.
If your level of fitness isn’t on par with fire fighter standards, don’t fret. There are other beneficial volunteer programs that you get involved in. Being an usher at concerts or sporting events can be a good way to catch a free show and strike up a conversation with a single young lady. River and hiking trail maintenance groups are great way to get outdoors and meet new people. Young women frequently take Earth stewardship seriously, and what a fantastic way to give back and introduce yourself to a younger woman. A sturdy pair of footwear will pay off dividends if you decide to go this route.
The holy grail of volunteering opportunities that young women flock to, is spending time at the local animal shelter. Cute puppy dogs attract more young women than you’ll know what to do with. If you love dogs, you’ll demonstrate to her that you are trust worthy and compassionate; both qualities that women are looking for in a man. Dog walking is also a great way to pick up chicks, in case you didn’t know.
Check your local newspaper or bulletin boards to find out when groups meet up. You’ll be on your way to dating younger women in no time if you make the effort to get out there and meet them on their own turf.
Online Dating
Ok, this is the area you can absolutely slay some bitches. Online dating is the area where you get your profile in front of the most qualified candidates. Search engines also allow users to select age ranges for possible matches. However, young women can specify and auto-reject men who don’t fit their age requirements. The good news that most of the women on online dating don’t do that. They want their profiles to be visible to largest number of potential suitors. If you need a refresher for online dating, read the our tips for online dating article.
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